Home!

We have been home a month and I have finally gotten around to updating my blog! Taking custody in Korea was HARD and our time in Korea was HARD. Grayson was grieving really badly, wouldn't walk, would only be held while standing and would cry if my husband sat down. Oh and he wouldn't let me hold him at all. There was about five days of this. I was pretty worried about how the transition would be once we got home. Well once we got home he was a new person, happy, loving affectionate and a good sleeper. We are so lucky! It seems that those who had it a bit easier in Korea are having it a bit more difficult than we are now, but every child is different. Our son was loved and was very loved by his foster family (who we are now friends with on FB and who gave us 700 photos and videos of his time with them) so I think the initial break was incredibly hard on him, but apparently it is easier for a child to switch attachment to new people than to build attachment from scratch. Here are some pictures of Grayson since coming home: